Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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So, are you gay or what?

LearningSlowly

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Ever gotten that sh!t test? I'm talking about a girl literally asking, in front of people, if you're gay, to see how you react.

Happened to me on Saturday, and it's happened once or twice before. I usually laugh it off "Yeah? Well fvck you too then!"

Questions like these are not insults. They are compliments. She is asking, "you're so different from the guys I know, how do you do it? Can I have you?"

And don't think I'm misreading it. I only get that question on nights when I'm the main attraction (like Saturday). Too bad I have a girlfriend now!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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LearningSlowly said:
Ever gotten that sh!t test? I'm talking about a girl literally asking, in front of people, if you're gay, to see how you react.

Happened to me on Saturday, and it's happened once or twice before. I usually laugh it off "Yeah? Well fvck you too then!"

Questions like these are not insults. They are compliments. She is asking, "you're so different from the guys I know, how do you do it? Can I have you?"

And don't think I'm misreading it. I only get that question on nights when I'm the main attraction (like Saturday). Too bad I have a girlfriend now!
Being asked that by a female that is one of the biggest compliments you can get, and there's a 95% chance she's interested in you. WORD.

I haven't been asked that lately.... I need to step things up a notch!

The Gambler
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DanZy said:
Or they legitimately believe you're gay, which is never a good thing
Who gives a ****, I have a girlfriend! I couldn't care less if these girls actually think I'm gay, especially when it gives me a chance to prove that they can't affect my positive state.
 

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Girls wondering if you're gay can be the ultimate compliment. Think. They are already thinking of you in a sexual context. They want you to go out with them. When you don't, they ask the gay question. -pook

You have the GREEN LIGHT to go for the women, and you are not moving. She is asking you if you're gay because you are not acting like most guys -pook
 
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