"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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So, are you gay or what?

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Ever gotten that sh!t test? I'm talking about a girl literally asking, in front of people, if you're gay, to see how you react.

Happened to me on Saturday, and it's happened once or twice before. I usually laugh it off "Yeah? Well fvck you too then!"

Questions like these are not insults. They are compliments. She is asking, "you're so different from the guys I know, how do you do it? Can I have you?"

And don't think I'm misreading it. I only get that question on nights when I'm the main attraction (like Saturday). Too bad I have a girlfriend now!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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LearningSlowly said:
Ever gotten that sh!t test? I'm talking about a girl literally asking, in front of people, if you're gay, to see how you react.

Happened to me on Saturday, and it's happened once or twice before. I usually laugh it off "Yeah? Well fvck you too then!"

Questions like these are not insults. They are compliments. She is asking, "you're so different from the guys I know, how do you do it? Can I have you?"

And don't think I'm misreading it. I only get that question on nights when I'm the main attraction (like Saturday). Too bad I have a girlfriend now!
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Being asked that by a female that is one of the biggest compliments you can get, and there's a 95% chance she's interested in you. WORD.

I haven't been asked that lately.... I need to step things up a notch!

The Gambler
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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DanZy said:
Or they legitimately believe you're gay, which is never a good thing
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Who gives a ****, I have a girlfriend! I couldn't care less if these girls actually think I'm gay, especially when it gives me a chance to prove that they can't affect my positive state.
 
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Girls wondering if you're gay can be the ultimate compliment. Think. They are already thinking of you in a sexual context. They want you to go out with them. When you don't, they ask the gay question. -pook

You have the GREEN LIGHT to go for the women, and you are not moving. She is asking you if you're gay because you are not acting like most guys -pook
 
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