"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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So, are you gay or what?

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Ever gotten that sh!t test? I'm talking about a girl literally asking, in front of people, if you're gay, to see how you react.

Happened to me on Saturday, and it's happened once or twice before. I usually laugh it off "Yeah? Well fvck you too then!"

Questions like these are not insults. They are compliments. She is asking, "you're so different from the guys I know, how do you do it? Can I have you?"

And don't think I'm misreading it. I only get that question on nights when I'm the main attraction (like Saturday). Too bad I have a girlfriend now!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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LearningSlowly said:
Ever gotten that sh!t test? I'm talking about a girl literally asking, in front of people, if you're gay, to see how you react.

Happened to me on Saturday, and it's happened once or twice before. I usually laugh it off "Yeah? Well fvck you too then!"

Questions like these are not insults. They are compliments. She is asking, "you're so different from the guys I know, how do you do it? Can I have you?"

And don't think I'm misreading it. I only get that question on nights when I'm the main attraction (like Saturday). Too bad I have a girlfriend now!
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Being asked that by a female that is one of the biggest compliments you can get, and there's a 95% chance she's interested in you. WORD.

I haven't been asked that lately.... I need to step things up a notch!

The Gambler
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DanZy said:
Or they legitimately believe you're gay, which is never a good thing
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Who gives a ****, I have a girlfriend! I couldn't care less if these girls actually think I'm gay, especially when it gives me a chance to prove that they can't affect my positive state.
 
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Girls wondering if you're gay can be the ultimate compliment. Think. They are already thinking of you in a sexual context. They want you to go out with them. When you don't, they ask the gay question. -pook

You have the GREEN LIGHT to go for the women, and you are not moving. She is asking you if you're gay because you are not acting like most guys -pook
 
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