"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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So apparently there's female PUAs now? wtf the point?

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Whats the point? what does their book or material tell them to do?

"opens female book"
"Notices there's only one page"

"the one page says"

"go up to a guy you like and say wanna ****"

that is all.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Whats the point?

The point is that although women enjoy sex, most of them want it within the context of a monogamous relationship.
 

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Female PUA? And what do they have to do? Sit somewhere. That's all. They don't even have to open their mouths.
 

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Well, the problem that women are having is one that revolves around the "good" men having more discerning tastes than previously.

This means that us DJ's are the prize, and they can't get us, because tits and a vagina aren't a free pass. So they need some game.

It's almost Darwin-ian.

*written heavily tongue-in-cheek*
 

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There is no game that a woman could play that would work on a PUA/DJ. I mean, what would it be? "Hard to get?" That only works on guys with very little experience. "Super slutty?" Pump and dump. What game could she play to get a player/pimp/PUA to commit? I'm curious.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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well im sure the rules only apply to catch those providers who have some experience but no true PUA DJ game or knowledge
 

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Zarky said:
What game could she play to get a player/pimp/PUA to commit? I'm curious.

Women play a lot of games that revolve around navigating the fragile male ego. They learn from a young age that it is very easy to make a guy feel threatened, should they do anything to appear smarter or better at anything else than the guy. For example, on a first date, if you happen to play any sort of game where you keep score, like pool, darts, mini-golf, bowling, etc., if she likes you and she's smart, then she's going to let you win. That will give you the confidence that she wants you to have. Later in the relationship, you might be fighting, and she will do the opposite, lashing out at your ego to give you less confidence. Women control men by manipulating their egos.
 

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An average looking AW is always a PUA. Comes form desire to manipulate and seek gains etc., to string you along, even though her looks could be better.

Many women will try to win your disposition and favor over. Thats their PUA stuff - AFC is the prey - a DJ is a challenge.
 

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Lesbians and ugly girls use pick - up techniques.
But I heard a lot of lesbians have been pretending to be guys and are now lurking here in sosuave.com
Lesbians are using sosuave.coms tactics to pick up women.
I wonder if lesbians can use the book of pook to pick up women?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Bible_Belt said:
Women play a lot of games that revolve around navigating the fragile male ego. They learn from a young age that it is very easy to make a guy feel threatened, should they do anything to appear smarter or better at anything else than the guy. For example, on a first date, if you happen to play any sort of game where you keep score, like pool, darts, mini-golf, bowling, etc., if she likes you and she's smart, then she's going to let you win. That will give you the confidence that she wants you to have. Later in the relationship, you might be fighting, and she will do the opposite, lashing out at your ego to give you less confidence. Women control men by manipulating their egos.
I understand and agree, but does that work on you? It doesn't work on me. My question is not about what games women use, it's: what games do women use that can WORK on an experienced player sort of guy?
 

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It's just more monkey see, monkey do bs where women are compelled to compete with us at everything we do.

"Men think they are the PUAs?! We'll show them!"
 

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Hmm.. Naah, that is not all..

If a Very fat & Ugly chick walked up to me and said that .. i would throw up ..

It would work if a HB10 came up to me though..

But some women need some PUA material too.. - I GUESS


--- But yeah, you are right, basicly, women should just walk up to guys and say something like that.
 

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Whoa...with pickup lines like that, I'd call those girlies sluts, not PUAs. Wait a minute. I almost forgot. PUAs "are" sluts. :up:
 
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