"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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So apparently there's female PUAs now? wtf the point?

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Whats the point? what does their book or material tell them to do?

"opens female book"
"Notices there's only one page"

"the one page says"

"go up to a guy you like and say wanna ****"

that is all.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Whats the point?

The point is that although women enjoy sex, most of them want it within the context of a monogamous relationship.
 

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Female PUA? And what do they have to do? Sit somewhere. That's all. They don't even have to open their mouths.
 

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Well, the problem that women are having is one that revolves around the "good" men having more discerning tastes than previously.

This means that us DJ's are the prize, and they can't get us, because tits and a vagina aren't a free pass. So they need some game.

It's almost Darwin-ian.

*written heavily tongue-in-cheek*
 

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There is no game that a woman could play that would work on a PUA/DJ. I mean, what would it be? "Hard to get?" That only works on guys with very little experience. "Super slutty?" Pump and dump. What game could she play to get a player/pimp/PUA to commit? I'm curious.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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well im sure the rules only apply to catch those providers who have some experience but no true PUA DJ game or knowledge
 

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Zarky said:
What game could she play to get a player/pimp/PUA to commit? I'm curious.

Women play a lot of games that revolve around navigating the fragile male ego. They learn from a young age that it is very easy to make a guy feel threatened, should they do anything to appear smarter or better at anything else than the guy. For example, on a first date, if you happen to play any sort of game where you keep score, like pool, darts, mini-golf, bowling, etc., if she likes you and she's smart, then she's going to let you win. That will give you the confidence that she wants you to have. Later in the relationship, you might be fighting, and she will do the opposite, lashing out at your ego to give you less confidence. Women control men by manipulating their egos.
 

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An average looking AW is always a PUA. Comes form desire to manipulate and seek gains etc., to string you along, even though her looks could be better.

Many women will try to win your disposition and favor over. Thats their PUA stuff - AFC is the prey - a DJ is a challenge.
 

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Lesbians and ugly girls use pick - up techniques.
But I heard a lot of lesbians have been pretending to be guys and are now lurking here in sosuave.com
Lesbians are using sosuave.coms tactics to pick up women.
I wonder if lesbians can use the book of pook to pick up women?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Bible_Belt said:
Women play a lot of games that revolve around navigating the fragile male ego. They learn from a young age that it is very easy to make a guy feel threatened, should they do anything to appear smarter or better at anything else than the guy. For example, on a first date, if you happen to play any sort of game where you keep score, like pool, darts, mini-golf, bowling, etc., if she likes you and she's smart, then she's going to let you win. That will give you the confidence that she wants you to have. Later in the relationship, you might be fighting, and she will do the opposite, lashing out at your ego to give you less confidence. Women control men by manipulating their egos.
I understand and agree, but does that work on you? It doesn't work on me. My question is not about what games women use, it's: what games do women use that can WORK on an experienced player sort of guy?
 

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It's just more monkey see, monkey do bs where women are compelled to compete with us at everything we do.

"Men think they are the PUAs?! We'll show them!"
 

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Hmm.. Naah, that is not all..

If a Very fat & Ugly chick walked up to me and said that .. i would throw up ..

It would work if a HB10 came up to me though..

But some women need some PUA material too.. - I GUESS


--- But yeah, you are right, basicly, women should just walk up to guys and say something like that.
 

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Whoa...with pickup lines like that, I'd call those girlies sluts, not PUAs. Wait a minute. I almost forgot. PUAs "are" sluts. :up:
 
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