"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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So apparently there's female PUAs now? wtf the point?

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Whats the point? what does their book or material tell them to do?

"opens female book"
"Notices there's only one page"

"the one page says"

"go up to a guy you like and say wanna ****"

that is all.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Whats the point?

The point is that although women enjoy sex, most of them want it within the context of a monogamous relationship.
 
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Female PUA? And what do they have to do? Sit somewhere. That's all. They don't even have to open their mouths.
 
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Well, the problem that women are having is one that revolves around the "good" men having more discerning tastes than previously.

This means that us DJ's are the prize, and they can't get us, because tits and a vagina aren't a free pass. So they need some game.

It's almost Darwin-ian.

*written heavily tongue-in-cheek*
 
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There is no game that a woman could play that would work on a PUA/DJ. I mean, what would it be? "Hard to get?" That only works on guys with very little experience. "Super slutty?" Pump and dump. What game could she play to get a player/pimp/PUA to commit? I'm curious.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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well im sure the rules only apply to catch those providers who have some experience but no true PUA DJ game or knowledge
 
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Zarky said:
What game could she play to get a player/pimp/PUA to commit? I'm curious.
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Women play a lot of games that revolve around navigating the fragile male ego. They learn from a young age that it is very easy to make a guy feel threatened, should they do anything to appear smarter or better at anything else than the guy. For example, on a first date, if you happen to play any sort of game where you keep score, like pool, darts, mini-golf, bowling, etc., if she likes you and she's smart, then she's going to let you win. That will give you the confidence that she wants you to have. Later in the relationship, you might be fighting, and she will do the opposite, lashing out at your ego to give you less confidence. Women control men by manipulating their egos.
 
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An average looking AW is always a PUA. Comes form desire to manipulate and seek gains etc., to string you along, even though her looks could be better.

Many women will try to win your disposition and favor over. Thats their PUA stuff - AFC is the prey - a DJ is a challenge.
 
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Lesbians and ugly girls use pick - up techniques.
But I heard a lot of lesbians have been pretending to be guys and are now lurking here in sosuave.com
Lesbians are using sosuave.coms tactics to pick up women.
I wonder if lesbians can use the book of pook to pick up women?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Bible_Belt said:
Women play a lot of games that revolve around navigating the fragile male ego. They learn from a young age that it is very easy to make a guy feel threatened, should they do anything to appear smarter or better at anything else than the guy. For example, on a first date, if you happen to play any sort of game where you keep score, like pool, darts, mini-golf, bowling, etc., if she likes you and she's smart, then she's going to let you win. That will give you the confidence that she wants you to have. Later in the relationship, you might be fighting, and she will do the opposite, lashing out at your ego to give you less confidence. Women control men by manipulating their egos.
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I understand and agree, but does that work on you? It doesn't work on me. My question is not about what games women use, it's: what games do women use that can WORK on an experienced player sort of guy?
 
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It's just more monkey see, monkey do bs where women are compelled to compete with us at everything we do.

"Men think they are the PUAs?! We'll show them!"
 
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Hmm.. Naah, that is not all..

If a Very fat & Ugly chick walked up to me and said that .. i would throw up ..

It would work if a HB10 came up to me though..

But some women need some PUA material too.. - I GUESS


--- But yeah, you are right, basicly, women should just walk up to guys and say something like that.
 
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Whoa...with pickup lines like that, I'd call those girlies sluts, not PUAs. Wait a minute. I almost forgot. PUAs "are" sluts. :up:
 
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