Ok I was at a party last night and I was talking to this one girl. Things were going very smoothly, she was laughing and having a good time and there was plenty of kino. She bought me a couple of drinks and everything was going well but later when she got a little bit more drunk she ended up being a lot less into me and kind of distant. Ofcourse I did what the teachings suggest, I just thought it being her loss and moved on. Does anyone have any suggestions on how to avoid this type of outcome in the future? It could be that the booze just made her less responsive or that I messed it up at some stage.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
So annoying when this happens. HELP
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
white cloud 8
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Yeah, she was probably just too trashed to probably even remember who you are/were.Neoscarecrue
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sounds like you started to go on cruise control.you shoulda pushed it harder as long as u were recieving kino like you said you were getting.sounds like you had established plenty of comfort,but it does seem like you shoulda took it further into arousal.
Sky B
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more keno.you could always use the whisper technique,ya know tell her a secret or if the place is loud,get close to her ear,it'll drive her crazy.also hand holding is so pimp because too many guys don't do it that much
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
So pimp its scary
Master Don Juan
I'm sorry to hear that you don't know how to escalate things with a girl. It starts with the kiss, then.... lost urge to typereply to that post: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:Originally posted by So pimp its scary
My comment: F*CKING PULL INTO THE B!TCH ALREADY!!!!
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