Ok I was at a party last night and I was talking to this one girl. Things were going very smoothly, she was laughing and having a good time and there was plenty of kino. She bought me a couple of drinks and everything was going well but later when she got a little bit more drunk she ended up being a lot less into me and kind of distant. Ofcourse I did what the teachings suggest, I just thought it being her loss and moved on. Does anyone have any suggestions on how to avoid this type of outcome in the future? It could be that the booze just made her less responsive or that I messed it up at some stage.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
So annoying when this happens. HELP
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
white cloud 8
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Yeah, she was probably just too trashed to probably even remember who you are/were.Neoscarecrue
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sounds like you started to go on cruise control.you shoulda pushed it harder as long as u were recieving kino like you said you were getting.sounds like you had established plenty of comfort,but it does seem like you shoulda took it further into arousal.
Sky B
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more keno.you could always use the whisper technique,ya know tell her a secret or if the place is loud,get close to her ear,it'll drive her crazy.also hand holding is so pimp because too many guys don't do it that much
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
So pimp its scary
Master Don Juan
I'm sorry to hear that you don't know how to escalate things with a girl. It starts with the kiss, then.... lost urge to typereply to that post: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:Originally posted by So pimp its scary
My comment: F*CKING PULL INTO THE B!TCH ALREADY!!!!
kthanxbye.
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