Ok I was at a party last night and I was talking to this one girl. Things were going very smoothly, she was laughing and having a good time and there was plenty of kino. She bought me a couple of drinks and everything was going well but later when she got a little bit more drunk she ended up being a lot less into me and kind of distant. Ofcourse I did what the teachings suggest, I just thought it being her loss and moved on. Does anyone have any suggestions on how to avoid this type of outcome in the future? It could be that the booze just made her less responsive or that I messed it up at some stage.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
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So annoying when this happens. HELP
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
white cloud 8
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Yeah, she was probably just too trashed to probably even remember who you are/were.Neoscarecrue
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sounds like you started to go on cruise control.you shoulda pushed it harder as long as u were recieving kino like you said you were getting.sounds like you had established plenty of comfort,but it does seem like you shoulda took it further into arousal.
Sky B
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more keno.you could always use the whisper technique,ya know tell her a secret or if the place is loud,get close to her ear,it'll drive her crazy.also hand holding is so pimp because too many guys don't do it that much
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
So pimp its scary
Master Don Juan
I'm sorry to hear that you don't know how to escalate things with a girl. It starts with the kiss, then.... lost urge to typereply to that post: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:Originally posted by So pimp its scary
My comment: F*CKING PULL INTO THE B!TCH ALREADY!!!!
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