"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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So An Update on the 17 Year Old Me & 19 Year Old Girl (Fight Inside)

Dante420

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If you want to know the full pick-up situation check-out my thread history, one of the last few threads.

She's 19, successful - Bottom line, I'm turned on and eventually I'm gonna wanna make her my girlfriend. Anyone want to link me to a thread on the DJ way to make a girl your girlfriend?

Her personality is great btw

She knew my age the first day we hung out, right after I gave her the first kiss. We eventually had sex that day and she's beyond amazing in bed.

We hung out again and I did her again.

Woke up in the morning and I did her again.

She said she wants to take me to a strip club for my 18th birthday.

So a 19 year old girl has me infatuated. A very big ego booster. . . . . . as if I need it
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Tell her you love her, that you think of her every day. Make sure you text her every night to say goodnight. Send her flowers and buy her stuff.
 

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Cabal said:
Tell her you love her, that you think of her every day. Make sure you text her every night to say goodnight. Send her flowers and buy her stuff.

:down:

I want to slap you through my computer screen. Not funny
 

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Cabal said:
Tell her you love her, that you think of her every day. Make sure you text her every night to say goodnight. Send her flowers and buy her stuff.
You forgot to mention following her around and getting jealous every time she talks to a guy. :D
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How bout 'I will love u forever and ever and ever. Or better yet how bout 'I cant live without you and would rather die than lose you.' That will stop her from leaving u.
 

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Why don't just ask her if she wants you to be together? No meaningless AFC talking or presents... You can't buy someone's feelings! Just go out for a drink or even after sex, since you guys are having a great time there and ask her something like "I'm having a great time everytime we're together, like you do (you look at her like waiting for a yes and smile/laugh, she'll propably say yes), so how about us being together?" Can't really find something better than "being together" it sounds to formal to me but I thinks it's fine...
 

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DonJuanit0 said:
Why don't just ask her if she wants you to be together? No meaningless AFC talking or presents... You can't buy someone's feelings! Just go out for a drink or even after sex, since you guys are having a great time there and ask her something like "I'm having a great time everytime we're together, like you do (you look at her like waiting for a yes and smile/laugh, she'll propably say yes), so how about us being together?" Can't really find something better than "being together" it sounds to formal to me but I thinks it's fine...
I'm 17 mister :box: :box:


lol, I'll figure it out. The words will come to me,
 

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Just to clarify, my last post was TOTAL SARCASM AND MEANT FOR YOU TO DO THE OPPOSITE.

As in, just chillin', like you and her are now. If it ain't broke, don't fix it.
 

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Tell her this: Hey look (girls name), I really like hanging out with you. I think your a lot of fun, your sexy, your a great person, and I want you to be my girlfriend.

Keep it something along the lines of that. Simple and easy. No "Do you want to be my girlfriend?" Tell her you WANT her to be your gf. Its more confident, and makes you seem like the big man that knows what he wants.

Good luck, and have fun in bed!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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