Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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So An Update on the 17 Year Old Me & 19 Year Old Girl (Fight Inside)

Dante420

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If you want to know the full pick-up situation check-out my thread history, one of the last few threads.

She's 19, successful - Bottom line, I'm turned on and eventually I'm gonna wanna make her my girlfriend. Anyone want to link me to a thread on the DJ way to make a girl your girlfriend?

Her personality is great btw

She knew my age the first day we hung out, right after I gave her the first kiss. We eventually had sex that day and she's beyond amazing in bed.

We hung out again and I did her again.

Woke up in the morning and I did her again.

She said she wants to take me to a strip club for my 18th birthday.

So a 19 year old girl has me infatuated. A very big ego booster. . . . . . as if I need it
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Tell her you love her, that you think of her every day. Make sure you text her every night to say goodnight. Send her flowers and buy her stuff.
 

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Cabal said:
Tell her you love her, that you think of her every day. Make sure you text her every night to say goodnight. Send her flowers and buy her stuff.

:down:

I want to slap you through my computer screen. Not funny
 

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Cabal said:
Tell her you love her, that you think of her every day. Make sure you text her every night to say goodnight. Send her flowers and buy her stuff.
You forgot to mention following her around and getting jealous every time she talks to a guy. :D
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How bout 'I will love u forever and ever and ever. Or better yet how bout 'I cant live without you and would rather die than lose you.' That will stop her from leaving u.
 

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Why don't just ask her if she wants you to be together? No meaningless AFC talking or presents... You can't buy someone's feelings! Just go out for a drink or even after sex, since you guys are having a great time there and ask her something like "I'm having a great time everytime we're together, like you do (you look at her like waiting for a yes and smile/laugh, she'll propably say yes), so how about us being together?" Can't really find something better than "being together" it sounds to formal to me but I thinks it's fine...
 

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DonJuanit0 said:
Why don't just ask her if she wants you to be together? No meaningless AFC talking or presents... You can't buy someone's feelings! Just go out for a drink or even after sex, since you guys are having a great time there and ask her something like "I'm having a great time everytime we're together, like you do (you look at her like waiting for a yes and smile/laugh, she'll propably say yes), so how about us being together?" Can't really find something better than "being together" it sounds to formal to me but I thinks it's fine...
I'm 17 mister :box: :box:


lol, I'll figure it out. The words will come to me,
 

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Just to clarify, my last post was TOTAL SARCASM AND MEANT FOR YOU TO DO THE OPPOSITE.

As in, just chillin', like you and her are now. If it ain't broke, don't fix it.
 

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Tell her this: Hey look (girls name), I really like hanging out with you. I think your a lot of fun, your sexy, your a great person, and I want you to be my girlfriend.

Keep it something along the lines of that. Simple and easy. No "Do you want to be my girlfriend?" Tell her you WANT her to be your gf. Its more confident, and makes you seem like the big man that knows what he wants.

Good luck, and have fun in bed!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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