"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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So An Update on the 17 Year Old Me & 19 Year Old Girl (Fight Inside)

Dante420

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If you want to know the full pick-up situation check-out my thread history, one of the last few threads.

She's 19, successful - Bottom line, I'm turned on and eventually I'm gonna wanna make her my girlfriend. Anyone want to link me to a thread on the DJ way to make a girl your girlfriend?

Her personality is great btw

She knew my age the first day we hung out, right after I gave her the first kiss. We eventually had sex that day and she's beyond amazing in bed.

We hung out again and I did her again.

Woke up in the morning and I did her again.

She said she wants to take me to a strip club for my 18th birthday.

So a 19 year old girl has me infatuated. A very big ego booster. . . . . . as if I need it
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Tell her you love her, that you think of her every day. Make sure you text her every night to say goodnight. Send her flowers and buy her stuff.
 

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Cabal said:
Tell her you love her, that you think of her every day. Make sure you text her every night to say goodnight. Send her flowers and buy her stuff.

:down:

I want to slap you through my computer screen. Not funny
 

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Cabal said:
Tell her you love her, that you think of her every day. Make sure you text her every night to say goodnight. Send her flowers and buy her stuff.
You forgot to mention following her around and getting jealous every time she talks to a guy. :D
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How bout 'I will love u forever and ever and ever. Or better yet how bout 'I cant live without you and would rather die than lose you.' That will stop her from leaving u.
 

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Why don't just ask her if she wants you to be together? No meaningless AFC talking or presents... You can't buy someone's feelings! Just go out for a drink or even after sex, since you guys are having a great time there and ask her something like "I'm having a great time everytime we're together, like you do (you look at her like waiting for a yes and smile/laugh, she'll propably say yes), so how about us being together?" Can't really find something better than "being together" it sounds to formal to me but I thinks it's fine...
 

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DonJuanit0 said:
Why don't just ask her if she wants you to be together? No meaningless AFC talking or presents... You can't buy someone's feelings! Just go out for a drink or even after sex, since you guys are having a great time there and ask her something like "I'm having a great time everytime we're together, like you do (you look at her like waiting for a yes and smile/laugh, she'll propably say yes), so how about us being together?" Can't really find something better than "being together" it sounds to formal to me but I thinks it's fine...
I'm 17 mister :box: :box:


lol, I'll figure it out. The words will come to me,
 

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Just to clarify, my last post was TOTAL SARCASM AND MEANT FOR YOU TO DO THE OPPOSITE.

As in, just chillin', like you and her are now. If it ain't broke, don't fix it.
 

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Tell her this: Hey look (girls name), I really like hanging out with you. I think your a lot of fun, your sexy, your a great person, and I want you to be my girlfriend.

Keep it something along the lines of that. Simple and easy. No "Do you want to be my girlfriend?" Tell her you WANT her to be your gf. Its more confident, and makes you seem like the big man that knows what he wants.

Good luck, and have fun in bed!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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