HariPoter13
Senior Don Juan
Keep your hair short, it suits you way better. And you definitively have that 'something' going for you. Other than that, I guess you just need to grow a pair =P
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Robyn923b said:PS: I get the feeling you are a grenade trying to get attention. Let's see your pics in the "I see where this is going" thread; no stealing pics from some girl's profile!
Yeah it sucks. But I always facial hair couldn't get more badass than a goatee. They're a lot of work to manage from what I've heard. Scruff at the very least is cool.manonfire said:I had similar problems my features are naturally softer and boyish. I grew some facial hair and suddenly people started percieveing me differently. Girls that ignored me gave me more attention cuz i looked my rugged and masculine.
grow a beard!
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Robyn923b said:You can speak for yourself, but you can't speak for all women. Plus you're only seventeen, you change what you want every week, dude. And even if you wre 25, women never know what they truly want.
Most girls will find it a turn off if you do it too often. It can also intimidate the shy/insecure girls and keep them from approaching you.
PS: I get the feeling you are a grenade trying to get attention. Let's see your pics in the "I see where this is going" thread; no stealing pics from some girl's profile!
Lol! That's nice subtlety. I just don't want to give off a nice guy (or ugly dude) vibe and def don't want to be the "middle of the road" guy that you often see brought up. It's worse than being ugly or weird in my opinion.BBbardot said:THIS
and it's written "je ne sais quoi"
so, just so it's clear op.. you're saying that girls are not waiting in line to give you head???
this is odd.
Yo my man you got them sex eyes. i hope you drilled that cutie real hardMarvin Gaye said:I want to know if you guys get a Nice Guy/Fag Guy/Sexy Guy vibe from the pictures and what I can do to maybe change that. rock on Sosuave :rockon:
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That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
BBbardot said:VERY STRONG POTENTIAL
man you have something about you... You don't have a classic look but i think you have a even better potential than a guy that is classicly handsome. Your face as personality, it's different USE IT. be confident, you have the absolute mean to be.
oh and don't grow your hair out like on last pic, makes you look awkward when you're not.
great potential srs, don't ruin it. If you grow in your 20's well, i promise many girl are going to crazy about that face/ attitude.
BBbardot said:his arrogant look is hot. He shouldn't change it
and i know better,I'm a very straight girl![]()
Kirro said:OP has a movie star look going on. That arrogant look makes you look badass, throw on some facial hair & you're set.
FairShake said:If you're ugly, you'll know it. Women (and men) will have told you. Or they will have said "Looks don't matter anyway."
If you're hot, you'll definitely know it. Women (and men) will have told you. Or shown you.
It's the average people who don't hear much about how they look. If you aren't getting any comments consider yourself in the mediocre middle and be content with looking the best you can.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Well I'm about average 5'9, I'm really hoping to push out a couple more inches before I hit twenty-one, when male bodies stop growing.Mike32ct said:I don't know your height, but you appear relatively tall. That's a plus. I wouldn't worry too much about being skinny. Tall dudes can get away with being skinny.
, you do have a very young, boyish look. That will be an advantage 10 years from now. But for now, I agree with those that suggest you get some facial hair to look more masculine. It doesn't have to be goatee. Maybe just a light beard, or a 5o'clock shadow or some "scruff" as you say. Add that to the arrogant look and you're good to go dude.
Well no one really stares at ugly/creepy people. Unless their face is on fire or something.Marvin Gaye said:Well I'm about average 5'9, I'm really hoping to push out a couple more inches before I hit twenty-one, when male bodies stop growing.
Yeah I've seen some 5'clock shadow on some dudes which totally seals the "don't give a fuk" attitude for most DJs
See the thing is I just don't know the difference between a "he's hot" stare from a girl, and the "whoa that guy is so ugly and creepy" stare from a B1tch, it's confusing. Both of them are kind of speechless and really focused, haha.
FairShake's advice sounds pretty spot-on though
So I guess Sosuave's conclusive answer is 'boredom' + 'facial hair' = badass hahaha, alright cool, this advice isn't too common in the DJ Bible though I think it needs to be updated with 'physicality stuff.Kirro said:OP has a movie star look going on. That arrogant look makes you look badass, throw on some facial hair & you're set.
But wouldn't a person with a totally asymetric face catch your eye, don't you find it hard to tear away from a strange looking person?Iceberg said:Well no one really stares at ugly/creepy people. Unless their face is on fire or something.
So I wouldn't worry about people staring at you out of ugliness. People don't do that. Not outside of 7th grade.
No. I mean, when I was a little kid, I'm sure I stared at strange looking people a lot. After you reach the stage when you realize that it's rude / strange, you stop.Marvin Gaye said:So I guess Sosuave's conclusive answer is 'boredom' + 'facial hair' = badass hahaha, alright cool, this advice isn't too common in the DJ Bible though I think it needs to be updated with 'physicality stuff.
But wouldn't a person with a totally asymetric face catch your eye, don't you find it hard to tear away from a strange looking person?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.