Mr. Unique
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
So AIDS did come from monkeys
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
picard
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there still alot of researh to be done to find out how HIV jumped from monkey to human. That's is medical mystery in the world right now.
SELF-MASTERY
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My biggest fear in life...
there are worse things in life than getting AIDS.SELF-MASTERY said:My biggest fear in life...
bbestar
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Like spending eternity seperated from God
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Le Parisien
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MightyMate
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Yes aids came from monkeys. But because of altzhaime research on them. They been lookin for a cure and made new virus lol. Im not readin article so i dunno if its about that, but i heard it some time ago.
Almost half of all African-Americans believe that HIV, the virus that causes Aids, is man-made...
http://www.amren.com/mtnews/archives/2005/01/black_americans.php
http://www.amren.com/mtnews/archives/2005/01/black_americans.php
Le Parisien
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This is understandable, mostly for two reasons:deacon said:Almost half of all African-Americans believe that HIV, the virus that causes Aids, is man-made...
http://www.amren.com/mtnews/archives/2005/01/black_americans.php
- It IS well known and widely recognized by all that Africa is the poorest and most economically backward continent in the world, without any foreseeable short/mid term improvement in the future. Admitting that AIDS originally comes from Africa would be another hard psychological blow to all the black populations around the world.
- Due to the infamous history of slavery, black poeple around the world, and especially the african americans, do NOT trust the white people in general. I'm not talking about the individual level, like "hey I'm black, I trust my white friends", I'm talking about the "collective conscience" level. Therefore, we hear a lot of conspiracy theories of this kind. "AIDS was created by white people to exterminate black people", "Africa is poor simply because the whites are working against us", "the american prisons are full of blacks not because we have more people who commit crimes, but simply because the american judicial system is a fundamentally racist system against black people", "OJ Simpson didn't kill his wife, it's the dirty white cops who framed him" etc...
So this consipracy theory is no surprise to me.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.