Mr. Unique
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Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
So AIDS did come from monkeys
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
picard
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there still alot of researh to be done to find out how HIV jumped from monkey to human. That's is medical mystery in the world right now.
SELF-MASTERY
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My biggest fear in life...
there are worse things in life than getting AIDS.SELF-MASTERY said:My biggest fear in life...
bbestar
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Like spending eternity seperated from God
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Le Parisien
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MightyMate
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Yes aids came from monkeys. But because of altzhaime research on them. They been lookin for a cure and made new virus lol. Im not readin article so i dunno if its about that, but i heard it some time ago.
Almost half of all African-Americans believe that HIV, the virus that causes Aids, is man-made...
http://www.amren.com/mtnews/archives/2005/01/black_americans.php
http://www.amren.com/mtnews/archives/2005/01/black_americans.php
Le Parisien
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This is understandable, mostly for two reasons:deacon said:Almost half of all African-Americans believe that HIV, the virus that causes Aids, is man-made...
http://www.amren.com/mtnews/archives/2005/01/black_americans.php
- It IS well known and widely recognized by all that Africa is the poorest and most economically backward continent in the world, without any foreseeable short/mid term improvement in the future. Admitting that AIDS originally comes from Africa would be another hard psychological blow to all the black populations around the world.
- Due to the infamous history of slavery, black poeple around the world, and especially the african americans, do NOT trust the white people in general. I'm not talking about the individual level, like "hey I'm black, I trust my white friends", I'm talking about the "collective conscience" level. Therefore, we hear a lot of conspiracy theories of this kind. "AIDS was created by white people to exterminate black people", "Africa is poor simply because the whites are working against us", "the american prisons are full of blacks not because we have more people who commit crimes, but simply because the american judicial system is a fundamentally racist system against black people", "OJ Simpson didn't kill his wife, it's the dirty white cops who framed him" etc...
So this consipracy theory is no surprise to me.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.