"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
So after you've banged enough girls that your content
- Thread starter cola
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
WC2
Master Don Juan
Secure your future.cola said:
Do things that make you happy/you're good at.
Meet new people.
The list goes on. In reality, these things should be well above banging women.
there can never be a time when you'll be content with the number you've banged..
and you should be focussing on WC2's list WHILE you're banging these women...not after, or before. They should happen concurrently
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
captain underpants
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Badmannaz
Master Don Juan
6 months ago i actually set a goal to bang 3 girls i really wanted to have...and i actually did it...and i have nothing to show from it but the fact that i actually had sex with them
being a player is overrated i'm not going to lie....its more of an accomplishment like its good for stories when your 65 but i didn't end up keeping any of the girls....so in the end idk if it was worth it or not...lol yea it was hahaha
yea focus on the life....girls will bring u down if you let them...and usually most of the time your the reason your having so much fun with all these girls..so idk when u get your fair share just follow your dreams...you'll have something to show from it...
oakraiderz2
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Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Threesomes. Lots of threesomes. :rockon:
Next, despite everyone having told you this for years, you accept one of life's boldest lessons on account of your own experience;cola said:
There is more to life than women. Much more.
One of the first lessons an aspiring DJ is set to learn is that women alone will never leave you truly content. I remember for so long, starting when I was in sixth grade and was just becoming interested with the opposite sex I thought that having a girlfriend/having sex with a girl was it -- The end all be all of happiness.
My freshman year of high school it happened. I had sex with a girl for the first time, and while it was nothing short of enjoyable (if brief lol), I realized that I had been cheated. This was not the earth shattering experience I had been promised. While I instantly knew that this was something I would have to try again, and could have sworn that I felt my chest hair grow that very night, on the whole I felt no different the morning after. Sure there was a little spring in my step, but it fades.
We've all seen it in the movies, in books, on tv and elsewhere. The imagery is just as much catered to men as to women. Sexuality is painted as the keystone in the archway of self-actualization. And for many, that can be true. Like most things in life, individual experiences vary - the problem comes in when men ignore other aspects of life to chase the most glamorized but least fulfilling one.
What we are left with is men whom have no idea what to do with their lives. Having achieved success sexually, and in many cases spending so much time doing so, they have forgotten that sex is just icing on the cake. It seems like we know it as children, then somewhere down the road lose sight of it. Most of us will make this discovery again.
Remember when you were a child? A woman's vajayjay was likely one of the last things on your mind. Yet most of us were happy. In fact, much happier than we are today. I know that I would have much rather played kickball or tag than hung out with a girl. I sure as hell cared a lot more about my report card.
We should take a lesson from children -- Do what makes you happy first, achieve that happiness. Women and sexuality are secondary.
I have just recently began to learn that if you do that, everything begins to fall in to place.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Igetit!
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I...LIKE...THIS.magickarl said:
+1 rep. point
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
Honestly I have no idea where that point is even at. How do you know how much of something you need to become full if you've never had it?
Honestly I want lots of sex. I don't know with how many women, but I know I want lots of it.
I want to get to the point where I feel I don't need sex anymore and I can start focusing on the rest of my life.
Not if you are hunting for her.
I was thinking the same thing some time back, so I consulted my grandpa whom is not only wise, but has a ****ing sweet mountain man beard.
He told me that he spent a lot of years looking for that somebody, and while he got plenty of hot WWII era tang it wasn't until he stopped looking so hard that he found her.
He got it in to his head that maybe he would never find wife material, and so he would instead just aim to have as much fun as he could dating whichever girl for however long and just seeing where it takes him. Long story short, he met my grandma shortly before leaving for the Army, served his time, and came home. They began dating and my grandpa conceded to me (while swearing me to secrecy) that at first, my grandma was just a piece of ass. He grew to like her more and more though, and she always put up with his ****. After a few years of this (and the birth of my uncle), it dawned on him that if they hadn't seriously disappointed each other yet they probably weren't going to.
So they tied the knot, and while they have had their problems, they have been for the most part happily married for 63 years.
I asked my father about his finding of my mother, and I was presented with a similar story. Except instead of a war veteran, my father sold insurance.
My pappy and grand-pappy haven't steered me wrong yet, so I'm going to believe them.
Good luck.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
FutureSpartan
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lol :crackup:Drewskie said:
good response though dbot...i have so many things I want to do in life but my hormones are a huge distraction man.
Biggest challenge for a man is the need to reconcile his life dreams/passions with his sexual desires.
Prodigy746
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.