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So, a girl who I've never talked to before..

Kilikk

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All right, well, here we go.

I still have to try and get together with a girl at an upcoming local show, but that's one option.

Anyway, there's this girl in my photography class that REALLY DOES look like this psycho girl I was about to "go out with". Long story, anyway..

She just caught my eye. We don't even sit that far away, I think, but somehow I want to do something with her. She's pretty hot but doesn't seem like the loud kind (which I like, a lot).

I haven't even spoken a word to her, but should I talk to her after class..? Maybe talk about the lesson or something (without making it awkward and such).

Thanks!
 

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WalkingStick

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If you have to talk to her after class, go for it. It might be better if you can at least say something IN class, to make it more casual. Talk about whatever you need to, but make sure you're having fun, she'll pick up on it.

Things are ALWAYS only awkward if you make them that way. relax
 

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Tease her on her photography, but dont be sincere about it, smile and laugh, and make sure she knows your joking, say something sarcastic like:

"*chuckle* Nice picture....." Its ALL in your tonality that determines whether its funny or not, whether your serious or not
 

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Usually hot girls are shy and thats probably thats why she isn't gonna be very loud until she feels comfortable with you.

Why wait until after class? start talking to her as soon as you get the chance, you could ask her about her camara or about what type of pictures she likes taking and hit it off from there....
Good luck man
 

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