"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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So, a girl who I've never talked to before..

Kilikk

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All right, well, here we go.

I still have to try and get together with a girl at an upcoming local show, but that's one option.

Anyway, there's this girl in my photography class that REALLY DOES look like this psycho girl I was about to "go out with". Long story, anyway..

She just caught my eye. We don't even sit that far away, I think, but somehow I want to do something with her. She's pretty hot but doesn't seem like the loud kind (which I like, a lot).

I haven't even spoken a word to her, but should I talk to her after class..? Maybe talk about the lesson or something (without making it awkward and such).

Thanks!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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WalkingStick

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If you have to talk to her after class, go for it. It might be better if you can at least say something IN class, to make it more casual. Talk about whatever you need to, but make sure you're having fun, she'll pick up on it.

Things are ALWAYS only awkward if you make them that way. relax
 

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Tease her on her photography, but dont be sincere about it, smile and laugh, and make sure she knows your joking, say something sarcastic like:

"*chuckle* Nice picture....." Its ALL in your tonality that determines whether its funny or not, whether your serious or not
 

CapCrunch

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Usually hot girls are shy and thats probably thats why she isn't gonna be very loud until she feels comfortable with you.

Why wait until after class? start talking to her as soon as you get the chance, you could ask her about her camara or about what type of pictures she likes taking and hit it off from there....
Good luck man
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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