"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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So, a girl who I've never talked to before..

Kilikk

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All right, well, here we go.

I still have to try and get together with a girl at an upcoming local show, but that's one option.

Anyway, there's this girl in my photography class that REALLY DOES look like this psycho girl I was about to "go out with". Long story, anyway..

She just caught my eye. We don't even sit that far away, I think, but somehow I want to do something with her. She's pretty hot but doesn't seem like the loud kind (which I like, a lot).

I haven't even spoken a word to her, but should I talk to her after class..? Maybe talk about the lesson or something (without making it awkward and such).

Thanks!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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WalkingStick

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If you have to talk to her after class, go for it. It might be better if you can at least say something IN class, to make it more casual. Talk about whatever you need to, but make sure you're having fun, she'll pick up on it.

Things are ALWAYS only awkward if you make them that way. relax
 

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Tease her on her photography, but dont be sincere about it, smile and laugh, and make sure she knows your joking, say something sarcastic like:

"*chuckle* Nice picture....." Its ALL in your tonality that determines whether its funny or not, whether your serious or not
 

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Usually hot girls are shy and thats probably thats why she isn't gonna be very loud until she feels comfortable with you.

Why wait until after class? start talking to her as soon as you get the chance, you could ask her about her camara or about what type of pictures she likes taking and hit it off from there....
Good luck man
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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