"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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BJP1991

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Do you ever add a girl on Snapchat after you’ve been out with them a few times or do you always let the woman do all the social-media pursuing and adding?

I’d have to think with all the dudes out there who try to use Snapchat and Facebook messenger to raise a woman’s interest, you could just become another number or come off as needy/desperate if you’re adding her on Snapchat or social media when you’ve only known someone less than a month.

I personally don’t use Snapchat much ever, except with my closest friends. I know some women tend to use it as a “legit” form of communication, which is pretty bogus if you ask me. For example, you match a girl on an OLD app and chat a bit then ask for her number and she gives you her Snapchat instead... I sometimes just Next them immediately at that point.

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Plinco

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Wait for her to do it.
 
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