"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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BJP1991

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Do you ever add a girl on Snapchat after you’ve been out with them a few times or do you always let the woman do all the social-media pursuing and adding?

I’d have to think with all the dudes out there who try to use Snapchat and Facebook messenger to raise a woman’s interest, you could just become another number or come off as needy/desperate if you’re adding her on Snapchat or social media when you’ve only known someone less than a month.

I personally don’t use Snapchat much ever, except with my closest friends. I know some women tend to use it as a “legit” form of communication, which is pretty bogus if you ask me. For example, you match a girl on an OLD app and chat a bit then ask for her number and she gives you her Snapchat instead... I sometimes just Next them immediately at that point.

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Wait for her to do it.
 
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