"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Snake Journal - DJ BOOTCAMP

Feast.of.Snake

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Hi all,

I'm Snake, 26 old, i'm French so my English is'nt very good but i'm learning. :)

I'm very shy, especialy with the girl, so i've decided to start a new DJ Bootcamp.

I know that it's a very old bootcamp but it's the most progressive i've found.

I'm started tomorow night.... Don't hesitate to follow it with me, it's more motivating. :)

Wish me good luck and see you. :rockon:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Feast.of.Snake

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Week 1 Completed.

Ok week one done. Now here is my feeling about it :

about the Post on Sel-Esteem

Perhaps the Pook's article on self-esteem may be à little bit nuanced.
I know a man that have a high self-esteem but he tottaly sucks in pickup girls.
He believe so much he is so good that it is totally out of touch.

Maybe i'm wrong but i think confidence with girls (or other activity) is aquiered primarily through experience if not it sound totally fake.

about Eye contact

IT's difficult in the beginning especially when you are shy like me but after it become an habit to look people in the eyes.

And i'm less scared about being with people when i look at them. I imagine fewer things, more cool :cool:

about "say hi"

The same with the "hi" thing. My voice was very weak at first but after it become fun to search people to say just "hi". It become a game, i think it's the good spirit with this bootcamp.

I must not take it seriously.

That's it.

See you at the next week !:wave:
 

TheMale

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good luck man ...
t es sur le bon chemin ... bonne chance !
 

Borknagar

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Haha good you're doing your own, I would never pay some jackass $3000 like some people I've met have, although they like to make it sound like it was worth it without sounding pathetic or stupid. But I know deep down everyone whose done one found out they were ripped off.
 

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Thanks for your encouragement !

I was has ill the last few weeks, and i moved ton another apartment so it was hard to continue the BC.

But i'm okay now, i will restart the Week 2 thurday.

See you soon.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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