"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Snake Journal - DJ BOOTCAMP

Feast.of.Snake

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Hi all,

I'm Snake, 26 old, i'm French so my English is'nt very good but i'm learning. :)

I'm very shy, especialy with the girl, so i've decided to start a new DJ Bootcamp.

I know that it's a very old bootcamp but it's the most progressive i've found.

I'm started tomorow night.... Don't hesitate to follow it with me, it's more motivating. :)

Wish me good luck and see you. :rockon:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Feast.of.Snake

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Week 1 Completed.

Ok week one done. Now here is my feeling about it :

about the Post on Sel-Esteem

Perhaps the Pook's article on self-esteem may be à little bit nuanced.
I know a man that have a high self-esteem but he tottaly sucks in pickup girls.
He believe so much he is so good that it is totally out of touch.

Maybe i'm wrong but i think confidence with girls (or other activity) is aquiered primarily through experience if not it sound totally fake.

about Eye contact

IT's difficult in the beginning especially when you are shy like me but after it become an habit to look people in the eyes.

And i'm less scared about being with people when i look at them. I imagine fewer things, more cool :cool:

about "say hi"

The same with the "hi" thing. My voice was very weak at first but after it become fun to search people to say just "hi". It become a game, i think it's the good spirit with this bootcamp.

I must not take it seriously.

That's it.

See you at the next week !:wave:
 

TheMale

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good luck man ...
t es sur le bon chemin ... bonne chance !
 

Borknagar

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Haha good you're doing your own, I would never pay some jackass $3000 like some people I've met have, although they like to make it sound like it was worth it without sounding pathetic or stupid. But I know deep down everyone whose done one found out they were ripped off.
 

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Thanks for your encouragement !

I was has ill the last few weeks, and i moved ton another apartment so it was hard to continue the BC.

But i'm okay now, i will restart the Week 2 thurday.

See you soon.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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