"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Snake Journal - DJ BOOTCAMP

Feast.of.Snake

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Hi all,

I'm Snake, 26 old, i'm French so my English is'nt very good but i'm learning. :)

I'm very shy, especialy with the girl, so i've decided to start a new DJ Bootcamp.

I know that it's a very old bootcamp but it's the most progressive i've found.

I'm started tomorow night.... Don't hesitate to follow it with me, it's more motivating. :)

Wish me good luck and see you. :rockon:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Feast.of.Snake

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Week 1 Completed.

Ok week one done. Now here is my feeling about it :

about the Post on Sel-Esteem

Perhaps the Pook's article on self-esteem may be à little bit nuanced.
I know a man that have a high self-esteem but he tottaly sucks in pickup girls.
He believe so much he is so good that it is totally out of touch.

Maybe i'm wrong but i think confidence with girls (or other activity) is aquiered primarily through experience if not it sound totally fake.

about Eye contact

IT's difficult in the beginning especially when you are shy like me but after it become an habit to look people in the eyes.

And i'm less scared about being with people when i look at them. I imagine fewer things, more cool :cool:

about "say hi"

The same with the "hi" thing. My voice was very weak at first but after it become fun to search people to say just "hi". It become a game, i think it's the good spirit with this bootcamp.

I must not take it seriously.

That's it.

See you at the next week !:wave:
 

TheMale

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good luck man ...
t es sur le bon chemin ... bonne chance !
 

Borknagar

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Haha good you're doing your own, I would never pay some jackass $3000 like some people I've met have, although they like to make it sound like it was worth it without sounding pathetic or stupid. But I know deep down everyone whose done one found out they were ripped off.
 

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Thanks for your encouragement !

I was has ill the last few weeks, and i moved ton another apartment so it was hard to continue the BC.

But i'm okay now, i will restart the Week 2 thurday.

See you soon.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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