"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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SMV is unfair to men

NoLimitDJ

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Why is it that a woman's SMV is only based off her looks and age yet men's are needed to be based off much, much more?

A woman only has to look good while men have to pander to societies standards just to fall short of a woman's SMV.

Then we are told we as men must DO MORE as if it's our fault we weren't born a woman.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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MatureDJ

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Because the woman has the more precious gamete. From this derives the evolutionary instinct for women to be fickle and men to be motivated to attempt to spread seed, leading to the natural state of hypergamy, which is why men have to try harder.
 

BeTheChange

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SMV IS unfair...to women.

Men have far more agency in controlling their SMV than women. If you're an ugly or old woman, you're finished as far as the game is concerned.

Thankfully man's SMV isn't primarily based on looks but things he can build and develop.
 

sosousage

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Woman is sexually attracted to man of higher SMV than she actually is. She gives sex to high quality boys for the validation. It boosts her value. Subconsciously (and possibly not only).

Men is sexually attracted to anything that he would bang. Meaning man could be 9/10 from look, but if he finds 4/10 girl cute, then he will bang her. His SMV could also be much bigger than the girl hes sleeping with. We just don't care, if it's just sex. LTR is different story.

Yeah that's not fair, but you can sleep with a lot of woman and you will be the hero, but if a girl sleeps with a lot of men, she will be the slut. Problem is not many men are that popular, they don't sleep with many girls. So they dont use their only advantage, but women still play their rules.
 

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At the end of the day, I'm quite happy with the way things are. With greater expectations, also comes more power and control IF you are willing to accept.

Another thing is, women get to do the initial choosing, but men get to determine what type of relationship ensues. I'd rather determine my own fate, than be at the mercy of a woman. One woman I made wait for 5yrs before I would agree to marry her. Another I made wait for 4yrs until she got tired of waiting and left. I'd hate for someone to make me wait 4-5yrs for something I wanted.

Just ask a bunch of women over 40 if their pu$$y is as powerful as it once was. Ask them if they feel life is fair?

Eventually every thing comes full circle in life. It all balances out. Everybody gets their day in the sun. Everybody has to pay the piper.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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