“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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SMV is unfair to men

NoLimitDJ

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Why is it that a woman's SMV is only based off her looks and age yet men's are needed to be based off much, much more?

A woman only has to look good while men have to pander to societies standards just to fall short of a woman's SMV.

Then we are told we as men must DO MORE as if it's our fault we weren't born a woman.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Because the woman has the more precious gamete. From this derives the evolutionary instinct for women to be fickle and men to be motivated to attempt to spread seed, leading to the natural state of hypergamy, which is why men have to try harder.
 

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SMV IS unfair...to women.

Men have far more agency in controlling their SMV than women. If you're an ugly or old woman, you're finished as far as the game is concerned.

Thankfully man's SMV isn't primarily based on looks but things he can build and develop.
 

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Woman is sexually attracted to man of higher SMV than she actually is. She gives sex to high quality boys for the validation. It boosts her value. Subconsciously (and possibly not only).

Men is sexually attracted to anything that he would bang. Meaning man could be 9/10 from look, but if he finds 4/10 girl cute, then he will bang her. His SMV could also be much bigger than the girl hes sleeping with. We just don't care, if it's just sex. LTR is different story.

Yeah that's not fair, but you can sleep with a lot of woman and you will be the hero, but if a girl sleeps with a lot of men, she will be the slut. Problem is not many men are that popular, they don't sleep with many girls. So they dont use their only advantage, but women still play their rules.
 

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At the end of the day, I'm quite happy with the way things are. With greater expectations, also comes more power and control IF you are willing to accept.

Another thing is, women get to do the initial choosing, but men get to determine what type of relationship ensues. I'd rather determine my own fate, than be at the mercy of a woman. One woman I made wait for 5yrs before I would agree to marry her. Another I made wait for 4yrs until she got tired of waiting and left. I'd hate for someone to make me wait 4-5yrs for something I wanted.

Just ask a bunch of women over 40 if their pu$$y is as powerful as it once was. Ask them if they feel life is fair?

Eventually every thing comes full circle in life. It all balances out. Everybody gets their day in the sun. Everybody has to pay the piper.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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