"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Smoothie Flavors

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There is a coffee shop that i frequent because it makes the most delicious smoothies...I usually like to get one for lunch when im on the run...Anyway there is this HB8 there..Shes a blonde...and she practically wears a bathing suit for her work outfit...All the female employees do...Ive been talking to her off an on for about a month now as I come into get my smoothie...So last week I came in and she was like "you get the same smoothie all the time, why dont you try something new..." initially i stuck with my choice...but I was in a what the hell kinda mood so i asked her what she recommended....she recommended "Berried Pleasure"..........I went with her recommendation and thought nothing of it even though the flavor intrigued me...I just realized that she was coming onto me...I think she was telling me that she enjoyed "buried pleasure"!!!!!LMFAO...Its funny how a woman can come onto to you subtley like that...Next time I go in I am going to walk up to her and tell her that I think I am in the mood for some "berried pleasure" and if she responds favorably i am going to set up a date at the beach with some "berried pleasure on the side"
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by sustainable007
There is a coffee shop that i frequent because it makes the most delicious smoothies...I usually like to get one for lunch when im on the run...Anyway there is this HB8 there..Shes a blonde...and she practically wears a bathing suit for her work outfit...All the female employees do...Ive been talking to her off an on for about a month now as I come into get my smoothie...So last week I came in and she was like "you get the same smoothie all the time, why dont you try something new..." initially i stuck with my choice...but I was in a what the hell kinda mood so i asked her what she recommended....she recommended "Berried Pleasure"..........I went with her recommendation and thought nothing of it even though the flavor intrigued me...I just realized that she was coming onto me...I think she was telling me that she enjoyed "buried pleasure"!!!!!LMFAO...Its funny how a woman can come onto to you subtley like that...Next time I go in I am going to walk up to her and tell her that I think I am in the mood for some "berried pleasure" and if she responds favorably i am going to set up a date at the beach with some "berried pleasure on the side"

If you think that she has a thing for you, go a little easy and kinda tease. Request something that will cover your mouth with her frothy desirable flavors. Topped with Dirty Sanchez and pearl necklace for her, your treat.
 

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You're kidding, right?! haha

Dude, please tell me there is more to this, much more, than what you initially wrote.

Cause from I see here she was not comin on to you. But hey, go for it anyway. Let's us know how it goes when you suggest buried pleasure in the sand or some shiet, haha. No, but seriously, let us know how it goes.

Time for my beddy by time!


-Soma
 

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Originally posted by sustainable007
There is a coffee shop that i frequent because it makes the most delicious smoothies...I usually like to get one for lunch when im on the run...Anyway there is this HB8 there..Shes a blonde...and she practically wears a bathing suit for her work outfit...All the female employees do...Ive been talking to her off an on for about a month now as I come into get my smoothie...So last week I came in and she was like "you get the same smoothie all the time, why dont you try something new..." initially i stuck with my choice...but I was in a what the hell kinda mood so i asked her what she recommended....she recommended "Berried Pleasure"..........I went with her recommendation and thought nothing of it even though the flavor intrigued me...I just realized that she was coming onto me...I think she was telling me that she enjoyed "buried pleasure"!!!!!LMFAO...Its funny how a woman can come onto to you subtley like that...Next time I go in I am going to walk up to her and tell her that I think I am in the mood for some "berried pleasure" and if she responds favorably i am going to set up a date at the beach with some "berried pleasure on the side"

If you think that she has a thing for you, go a little easy and kinda tease. Request something that will cover your mouth with her frothy desirable flavors.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Originally posted by sustainable007
...Next time I go in I am going to walk up to her and tell her that I think I am in the mood for some "berried pleasure" and if she responds favorably i am going to set up a date at the beach with some "berried pleasure on the side"

Action without words is infact like a smoothie flavours very fluffy

when it comes to playing this game there is no second chance, do what you got do now.Why cant you do it the first time oh she is going to slap you. Tell me when was the last time you remove a pant. Common mate kill that jitters and go get your date remove some panties and rump away.

-Sensible Juan
 

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Be thankful she didn't suggest cookies and cream.
 

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Round 2

I went back into the smoothie bar...She was there...BTW: She noticed my Kerry Edwards Shirt and even though shes a Bush supporter it gave us conversation material...I said to her: "I think I am in the mood for some berried pleasure but i pronounced it buried..haha..." We talked some more and she asked me what i did last nite...I told her I was out barhopping on near the beach...She asked me what i do for a job..and then she told me what she did last nite...I chose to let this fester some more cause i realized that i was in a situation where "Doc Love's captive audience principle" applied...I see this chick twice a week so what I am going to do is continue DJ'n her and raising her IL until I think i have peaked it....then ill go for digits and bang this chick on the first date...The heated political argument we got into gave me the sense that she enjoyed every minute...I think she is one of those women that intentionally starts arguments in order to get some intense sex....Ill keep you guys posted...BTW: There are 4 other hot chicks working in this establisment so I think that preserving my mystery and being patient is going to get me some buried pleasure soon enuff...
 

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Congrats. You've just won an all-expense-paid trip to the main forum.

Moved to Don Juan Discussion.
 

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This reminds me of Seinfield episode whith "timeless art of seduction"...:D ...
I swear dude...just ask her out!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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sustainable007

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You miss the point

The thing that gets missed on this forum alot is that when you force your hand to early you hint of desperation.....I think that is why alot of guys strike out so much because they try a cold approach on first sighting, where as if they were patient and applied the captive audience principle then victory probabilities would be much higher...of course there are exceptions such as when you dont know if youll see a woman again, but when you know you have a woman that youll see frequently, why not wait until just the right time.....
 
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