"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Smoking & Cologne

citnick

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I smoke black and milds and the smell seems to overtake my cologne. For any DJ that smokes, how do you avoid this?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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blong1068

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Keep cologne with you, and spray it on you every once in a while. Or stop smoking.
 

Soshyopathe

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The amount of cologne it takes to cover a black is enough to smother a girl. I hate you wiggers who walk by absolutely REEKING of blacks and Cool Water.
 

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I dont smoke butts anymore but heres what i used to do:

Smoke outside or by a window and use only one hand and position yourself so the smokes not blowing on you.

Wipe a dryer sheet (Bounce really does the trick) on your shirt/hair/hands and wash hands and face if you can.

Carry some gum on you (Orbit Whitening is my fav, gets rid of smoke stains)

Wait 10 minutes before applying cologne if you need it (which you wont).

I know you've heard this before but smoking is bad for you. It no longer has that cool image associated with it and its easier now than ever to quit with the gum or patch (expensive but think long term).
 

Elimidate

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Use the patch ?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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djray

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First of all quit smoking dog rockets !!!!!

I smoke black and milds and the smell seems to overtake my cologne. For any DJ that smokes, how do you avoid this?
The problem is what you are smoking. I smoke real cigars every day, and an hour later i can barely smell it in my shirt.

Now go down to a cigar shop(not a drug store) and get a real cigar.
 
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