Do women see a guy smoking a cigar as sophisticated and classy or are they so turned off by the smell that it's not worth it? I smoke a cigar occasionally, but almost never around women, as I think the smell would be an instant turn-off.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Smoking Cigars
- Thread starter SamMalone
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
JaguarMike
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Smoking/drinking/cars/clothes all depends on the type of guy and his attitude. The majority of men that are in hollywood that women desire smoke cigarettes, and women don't care that THEY smoke, because "they look hot when they do it." Fact is, if you are a chump smoking a cigar they won't like it. If you are a pimp smoking a cigar they will like it. Try reframing your mindset this way, instead of thinking "will chicks not like me because I smoke cigars?" think, "that chick is hot, i'm gunna go talk to her and see if her personality matches it (while smoking cigar"
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You may wanna take a peek at my post Cigars 101
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