Do women see a guy smoking a cigar as sophisticated and classy or are they so turned off by the smell that it's not worth it? I smoke a cigar occasionally, but almost never around women, as I think the smell would be an instant turn-off.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Smoking Cigars
- Thread starter SamMalone
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
JaguarMike
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Smoking/drinking/cars/clothes all depends on the type of guy and his attitude. The majority of men that are in hollywood that women desire smoke cigarettes, and women don't care that THEY smoke, because "they look hot when they do it." Fact is, if you are a chump smoking a cigar they won't like it. If you are a pimp smoking a cigar they will like it. Try reframing your mindset this way, instead of thinking "will chicks not like me because I smoke cigars?" think, "that chick is hot, i'm gunna go talk to her and see if her personality matches it (while smoking cigar"
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You may wanna take a peek at my post Cigars 101
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