Do women see a guy smoking a cigar as sophisticated and classy or are they so turned off by the smell that it's not worth it? I smoke a cigar occasionally, but almost never around women, as I think the smell would be an instant turn-off.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Smoking Cigars
- Thread starter SamMalone
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
JaguarMike
Don Juan
Smoking/drinking/cars/clothes all depends on the type of guy and his attitude. The majority of men that are in hollywood that women desire smoke cigarettes, and women don't care that THEY smoke, because "they look hot when they do it." Fact is, if you are a chump smoking a cigar they won't like it. If you are a pimp smoking a cigar they will like it. Try reframing your mindset this way, instead of thinking "will chicks not like me because I smoke cigars?" think, "that chick is hot, i'm gunna go talk to her and see if her personality matches it (while smoking cigar"
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You may wanna take a peek at my post Cigars 101
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