I've noticed that smiling while talking on the phone actually conveys that you are smiling and good-spirited in your tone. It comes of very positive and has helped me a lot in keeping things light, especially on those first few call before ive gone out with her or haven't gone out too often and she calls to talk a bit.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Smiling while talking on the phone
- Thread starter Charm
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Doggystyle
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Smiling effects your mood, which effects your voice tone which will come across over the phone. Its hard to genuinely smile and not come across as being in a good mood.
People in sales do this on the phones talking to customers
People in sales do this on the phones talking to customers
Bible_Belt
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I agree.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
squirrels
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Funny...I just read this in "How to Win Friends and Influence People"...is that where you got it from?Charm said:
When I talk on the phone, I try to put myself in the state I was in when I last saw the girl, as if she was there with me in person.
The one thing I'm not good at on the phone is when the girl starts to put up sh!t tests or otherwise switch plans or flake at the last minute. I haven't figured out the best way to respond to that and usually end up either acquiescing just to break the silence or getting pissed off and hanging up.
squirrels,
No, I learned the importance of smiling on the phone from sales and business and seeing how much more effective it is. I have had very good mentors help me. Also, the best way to deal with a **** test or to give yourself more time at the least is to throw her question back at her.
You say: Wow, talking to you has made my day half-complete (said in a ****y tone)
Her: What, im not good enough to make it complete?
You: Ill pick you up around 730 and you can see about completing it then. OR you might say Your twice as good as I think you are.
The first respone will make plans and make her qualify herself. The second just throws her sh1t test back at her.
No, I learned the importance of smiling on the phone from sales and business and seeing how much more effective it is. I have had very good mentors help me. Also, the best way to deal with a **** test or to give yourself more time at the least is to throw her question back at her.
You say: Wow, talking to you has made my day half-complete (said in a ****y tone)
Her: What, im not good enough to make it complete?
You: Ill pick you up around 730 and you can see about completing it then. OR you might say Your twice as good as I think you are.
The first respone will make plans and make her qualify herself. The second just throws her sh1t test back at her.