"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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Smiling, or serious seducing look?

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Which one is best?

The guy who smiles all the time, that is having fun with the convo, making small flirty jokes etc..

Or the guy who has a more serious expression, that makes a seducive smile from time to time, and talks in a slow pace, and trying to get the conversation spicier?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Whichever suits you personally. Youre either a fun, outgoing guy or a serious, mysterious guy. (Suppose theres an in between too!)

For clubs the fun, flirty guy will get the most chicks.

When youre on your own with the girl I can see the slow, seductive DJ winning out!

But its down to you man.
 
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Theres a time and place for either. Dont limit yourself to just one.
 
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i enjoy the seductive aspect and don't even smile at all hardly, even though i like think that i'm a fairly funny and entertaining fellow.
 
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I've used both with good results, and been commented about. This one girl, who I met and hooked up with, at the supermarket told me that I gave her a look like I was going to take her and she is going to love it.

I'm careful to use that one though its meer rapeist.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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If you don't know the girl - lighthearted.

If its your anniversary - serious and seducing - & lighthearted.

Being funny helps. Not being funny usually doesn't.

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