"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Smiling, or serious seducing look?

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Which one is best?

The guy who smiles all the time, that is having fun with the convo, making small flirty jokes etc..

Or the guy who has a more serious expression, that makes a seducive smile from time to time, and talks in a slow pace, and trying to get the conversation spicier?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Whichever suits you personally. Youre either a fun, outgoing guy or a serious, mysterious guy. (Suppose theres an in between too!)

For clubs the fun, flirty guy will get the most chicks.

When youre on your own with the girl I can see the slow, seductive DJ winning out!

But its down to you man.
 
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Jimbo2k

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Theres a time and place for either. Dont limit yourself to just one.
 
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i enjoy the seductive aspect and don't even smile at all hardly, even though i like think that i'm a fairly funny and entertaining fellow.
 
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I've used both with good results, and been commented about. This one girl, who I met and hooked up with, at the supermarket told me that I gave her a look like I was going to take her and she is going to love it.

I'm careful to use that one though its meer rapeist.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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If you don't know the girl - lighthearted.

If its your anniversary - serious and seducing - & lighthearted.

Being funny helps. Not being funny usually doesn't.

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