Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Smiling, or serious seducing look?

Trance

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Which one is best?

The guy who smiles all the time, that is having fun with the convo, making small flirty jokes etc..

Or the guy who has a more serious expression, that makes a seducive smile from time to time, and talks in a slow pace, and trying to get the conversation spicier?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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silverwex

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Whichever suits you personally. Youre either a fun, outgoing guy or a serious, mysterious guy. (Suppose theres an in between too!)

For clubs the fun, flirty guy will get the most chicks.

When youre on your own with the girl I can see the slow, seductive DJ winning out!

But its down to you man.
 

Jimbo2k

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Theres a time and place for either. Dont limit yourself to just one.
 

Ridingthelightning

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i enjoy the seductive aspect and don't even smile at all hardly, even though i like think that i'm a fairly funny and entertaining fellow.
 

TurboLover

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I've used both with good results, and been commented about. This one girl, who I met and hooked up with, at the supermarket told me that I gave her a look like I was going to take her and she is going to love it.

I'm careful to use that one though its meer rapeist.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Spike_the_cowboy

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If you don't know the girl - lighthearted.

If its your anniversary - serious and seducing - & lighthearted.

Being funny helps. Not being funny usually doesn't.

:cool:
 
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