"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Smiling, good or bad?

LikerOfWomen

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I've read a lot of conflicting information on this one.

A lot of the advice I read says to smile a lot.

Some (David DeAngelo for example) say to keep it to a minimum.

It sounds like both approaches can work, but how do I tell which is best for me?

One thing I know is that I'm horrible at smiling on demand. It just looks stupid. I have a decent smile when something happens that I can't help smiling about, but when I try to smile deliberately for a photo or something it just looks stupid. Is this something I should really work on, or can I make the rarely-smiling approach work?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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check_mate_kid_uk

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David DeAngelo is an idiot, you should smile a lot, if you where really overdoing it you would know. If you cant smile then dont but you can practice in front of the mirror, smiling is good.
 

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What does Mysetery say to do?
 

SDFUandDie

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smile when u want to and dont wen u dont want to.. simple as that.

smiling when your not in the mood is being fake.

you can always get that gel the contestants from the miss america use to hold your smile up ... or was it the butt cream?!?!?!?

:cool:
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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don code

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check mate kid DD is not an idiot and smiling is good in moderation if you smile constantly ou will look like a ****head.
 

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Would you like a cold ass? Don't you feel warm inside ewhen someone smiles at you? I sure do. Deangelo can go blow his mancocks. Minimum...wtf is he saying. Smile when you greet ppeople and otherwise, just smile whenver you feel like it. There is not rule. A constant smile means you're gay though.
 

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some days i smille the whole time, im just happy, many people point out im always smiling, and people are warm about it.

PS: doncode... David DeAngelo IS an idiot
 

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I think De Angelo is trying to get guys to become like James Bond.

He says not to smile but to "smirk" or give half smiles.

It works for him.. I mean I bet he bangs 100s to 1000s of chicks so go Dave.

I really don't understand those people who read only DYD's eBook and become successful. I have read it a few times and have really only helped double my interactions with women. There is so much more I had to learn outside of DYD's stuff to really get it.

Anyway, I am more for being natural and not worrying about anything like smiles as much.
 

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IMO, don't smile (or laugh) if you don't do it very well.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by Virtú
IMO, don't smile (or laugh) if you don't do it very well.
How are you supposed to do that? What do you mean do it well?
 

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How about this:
What will it say about YOU if you stop smiling because somebody on here TOLD you it isn't good??
 
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