"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Smiling, good or bad?

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I've read a lot of conflicting information on this one.

A lot of the advice I read says to smile a lot.

Some (David DeAngelo for example) say to keep it to a minimum.

It sounds like both approaches can work, but how do I tell which is best for me?

One thing I know is that I'm horrible at smiling on demand. It just looks stupid. I have a decent smile when something happens that I can't help smiling about, but when I try to smile deliberately for a photo or something it just looks stupid. Is this something I should really work on, or can I make the rarely-smiling approach work?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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David DeAngelo is an idiot, you should smile a lot, if you where really overdoing it you would know. If you cant smile then dont but you can practice in front of the mirror, smiling is good.
 
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What does Mysetery say to do?
 
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smile when u want to and dont wen u dont want to.. simple as that.

smiling when your not in the mood is being fake.

you can always get that gel the contestants from the miss america use to hold your smile up ... or was it the butt cream?!?!?!?

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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check mate kid DD is not an idiot and smiling is good in moderation if you smile constantly ou will look like a ****head.
 
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Would you like a cold ass? Don't you feel warm inside ewhen someone smiles at you? I sure do. Deangelo can go blow his mancocks. Minimum...wtf is he saying. Smile when you greet ppeople and otherwise, just smile whenver you feel like it. There is not rule. A constant smile means you're gay though.
 
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some days i smille the whole time, im just happy, many people point out im always smiling, and people are warm about it.

PS: doncode... David DeAngelo IS an idiot
 
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I think De Angelo is trying to get guys to become like James Bond.

He says not to smile but to "smirk" or give half smiles.

It works for him.. I mean I bet he bangs 100s to 1000s of chicks so go Dave.

I really don't understand those people who read only DYD's eBook and become successful. I have read it a few times and have really only helped double my interactions with women. There is so much more I had to learn outside of DYD's stuff to really get it.

Anyway, I am more for being natural and not worrying about anything like smiles as much.
 
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IMO, don't smile (or laugh) if you don't do it very well.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by Virtú
IMO, don't smile (or laugh) if you don't do it very well.
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How are you supposed to do that? What do you mean do it well?
 
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How about this:
What will it say about YOU if you stop smiling because somebody on here TOLD you it isn't good??
 
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