"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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smile and the world will smile with you.

mangotot

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I came across the phrase "Smile and the World will smile with You" - is this really true? Personally I found it mixed with a lot of opposites thrown in there
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Maximummax

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It has two sides in my opinion
Some people says smile and walk up to a girl to open her---- this might work sometimes.

Some guys says-- Have a serious face/look mad...this will make her instantly submissive. try out both see which works
 

KingBeef

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Personally, I smile and I've gotten good results (I've been told that I have a nice smile) but what's important is what's behind it. Smile with your teeth (if you're conscious about it because of something, address it and get it fixed) Be charming, engaging and friendly. You'll see how everything goes a long way....
 
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It depends on your environment. I believe that your living environment and the people you surround yourself with is 50% of your mood and productivity.

If you like warm weather and live near the Great Lakes, you're behind the 8 ball by default.

If you like a rural lifestyle with small populations/no traffic and live in New York, you're behind the 8 ball by default.

If you don't drink and your friends are dysfunctional drunks you're behind 8 the ball by default.

It's kind of a self-fulfilling prophecy and your perception is your reality.
 

ImTheDoubleGreatest!

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Smile meaning go about happy and confidently. Be nice, but not a pushover.

That last part I just said is the biggest problem people have when they first come to this place.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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miketan70

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Never mind if that is true. Just be happy and enjoy life :)
 
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