"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
smile and the world will smile with you.
- Thread starter mangotot
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Maximummax
Senior Don Juan
Some people says smile and walk up to a girl to open her---- this might work sometimes.
Some guys says-- Have a serious face/look mad...this will make her instantly submissive. try out both see which works
KingBeef
Master Don Juan
BlueAlpha1
Guest
If you like warm weather and live near the Great Lakes, you're behind the 8 ball by default.
If you like a rural lifestyle with small populations/no traffic and live in New York, you're behind the 8 ball by default.
If you don't drink and your friends are dysfunctional drunks you're behind 8 the ball by default.
It's kind of a self-fulfilling prophecy and your perception is your reality.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
That last part I just said is the biggest problem people have when they first come to this place.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
