"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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SmoothTalker

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Very true. And not only is there self selection bias in threads like this, but online tests often inflate the scores because they try to sell you things such as more detailed reports, and people would rather read about how they're a genius and didn't even know it, than about how they are entirely average.

Note, the above also applies to all penis size surveys. Subtract an inch and you're probably closer to true average. For IQ, subtract about 25 points.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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theunflushables

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Yeah its pretty much an intellectual pissing match. And its not like anybody has ever lied on the internet. :rolleyes: But, what the hell...
 

azanon

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My d*** is big too. I'm not joking.

This sucks when you really are telling the truth.
 

piranha45

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oh, AZANON! ur just too much man for any single gal *sighs*
 

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There is one category of people who actually gain by admitting absymally low IQ scores. Idiot savants.

Ten years ago, there was a show on a local radio station called "Stump Ruthie." It consisted of this old woman named Ruthie—I think she was the aunt of one of the radio jocks—and it was a trivia game whereby a caller would try to stump her. It could be any question so long as the trivia was authentic and no matter how obscure the facts, never once was Ruthie stumped. She could even tell you the weather report on this day twenty years ago.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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trv26

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I consider myself relatively intelligent. I've never actually taken a proper IQ test but am going by the fact that I usually got roughly 3rd to 4th best results in my class (not year group) throughout high school.

One thing I have trouble with is however sarcasm. never seem to get it or atleast not until it is too late. Anyone got any ideas why that might be the case? Is it likely that I'm not as smart as I'd like to think I am, or is there something else to it?
 
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