"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Smartphone Addiction

Bingo-Player

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not really to do with game but I'm finding a disturbing addiction to my iPhone is starting to manifest

i took a step back on the train today and looked around to see nearly every single person like a zombie on theirs

my concentration is appaling ,i don't read books anymore and my life seems to revolve around notifications going off all day:crazy:

do i need to be worried ? :whistle:

and is anyone else starting to feel slightly monopolized by social media ?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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MattTheW

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I pointed out the same thing to a bunch of guys in work today. They all make plans to take their break at the same time and go to the canteen. And then they spend all their time looking at their phones....

I've noticed I'm pretty bad with mine but I'm not that bad!!
 

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so are we supposed to just get on with it or what im genuinley concerned for my mental state lol
 

pyros

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I really hate when ppl go to a party, or to have dinner with friends, and at any moment around 60% of the ppl are looking at her cell-phone...it is really annoying and stupid.

Ppl get together to not speak to each other and pay attention to whatever is going on on FB, twitter etc. Lame.

Then they become retarded social inepts that do not know how to meet new ppl or keep a conversation going.

Smartphones are turning ppl into zombies, and turning women into selfish, attention *****s. It is a disaster really...
 

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It is a massive problem and it's destroying the ability to converse and more importantly focus.

People are becoming uncomfortable without having something to play with ...

The best to combat it is to be aware when you feel compelled to use it and why you are using it.

Make sure you unplug yourself from all devices for at least a few hours at a time and socialize and at worst get outside away from devices.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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