"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Smartphone Addiction

Bingo-Player

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not really to do with game but I'm finding a disturbing addiction to my iPhone is starting to manifest

i took a step back on the train today and looked around to see nearly every single person like a zombie on theirs

my concentration is appaling ,i don't read books anymore and my life seems to revolve around notifications going off all day:crazy:

do i need to be worried ? :whistle:

and is anyone else starting to feel slightly monopolized by social media ?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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MattTheW

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I pointed out the same thing to a bunch of guys in work today. They all make plans to take their break at the same time and go to the canteen. And then they spend all their time looking at their phones....

I've noticed I'm pretty bad with mine but I'm not that bad!!
 

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so are we supposed to just get on with it or what im genuinley concerned for my mental state lol
 

pyros

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I really hate when ppl go to a party, or to have dinner with friends, and at any moment around 60% of the ppl are looking at her cell-phone...it is really annoying and stupid.

Ppl get together to not speak to each other and pay attention to whatever is going on on FB, twitter etc. Lame.

Then they become retarded social inepts that do not know how to meet new ppl or keep a conversation going.

Smartphones are turning ppl into zombies, and turning women into selfish, attention *****s. It is a disaster really...
 

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It is a massive problem and it's destroying the ability to converse and more importantly focus.

People are becoming uncomfortable without having something to play with ...

The best to combat it is to be aware when you feel compelled to use it and why you are using it.

Make sure you unplug yourself from all devices for at least a few hours at a time and socialize and at worst get outside away from devices.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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