"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Smartphone Addiction

Bingo-Player

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not really to do with game but I'm finding a disturbing addiction to my iPhone is starting to manifest

i took a step back on the train today and looked around to see nearly every single person like a zombie on theirs

my concentration is appaling ,i don't read books anymore and my life seems to revolve around notifications going off all day:crazy:

do i need to be worried ? :whistle:

and is anyone else starting to feel slightly monopolized by social media ?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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MattTheW

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I pointed out the same thing to a bunch of guys in work today. They all make plans to take their break at the same time and go to the canteen. And then they spend all their time looking at their phones....

I've noticed I'm pretty bad with mine but I'm not that bad!!
 

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so are we supposed to just get on with it or what im genuinley concerned for my mental state lol
 

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I really hate when ppl go to a party, or to have dinner with friends, and at any moment around 60% of the ppl are looking at her cell-phone...it is really annoying and stupid.

Ppl get together to not speak to each other and pay attention to whatever is going on on FB, twitter etc. Lame.

Then they become retarded social inepts that do not know how to meet new ppl or keep a conversation going.

Smartphones are turning ppl into zombies, and turning women into selfish, attention *****s. It is a disaster really...
 

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It is a massive problem and it's destroying the ability to converse and more importantly focus.

People are becoming uncomfortable without having something to play with ...

The best to combat it is to be aware when you feel compelled to use it and why you are using it.

Make sure you unplug yourself from all devices for at least a few hours at a time and socialize and at worst get outside away from devices.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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