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Smart vs casual

rhythmic

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So I'm going to a bar/club tonight, sort of a rock venue, with some work friends. In the hotel now having a sneaky G&T and pondering...

Do I rock up in my suit from work, or my black jeans and vest?

What do you guys think either of these sets of attire says to women?

I know, I know, "whatever you're comfortable in" but honestly, I feel equally comfortable in either. I like wearing suits or dressing casual.

What are your experiences with either dress style?

Bearing in mind the norm is very much going to be jeans and t-shirt, with the odd person wearing a shirt.
 

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would you wear black jeans and vest to a business meeting?
 

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Certainly not, but I very much doubt anyone else will be wearing a suit or even work clothes here. I'm leaning towards the suit to be honest, but I know I'll be the only person in there wearing a suit. Which is fine, just looking for your experiences in how people perceive you; DO clothes make the man?
 

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rhythmic said:
Certainly not, but I very much doubt anyone else will be wearing a suit or even work clothes here. I'm leaning towards the suit to be honest, but I know I'll be the only person in there wearing a suit. Which is fine, just looking for your experiences in how people perceive you; DO clothes make the man?
well my point was, when in rome, do as the romans do. ie - dress accordingly.

however, wearing a suit in such a situation might be to your advantage as you would certainly stand out. so go with the suit.

bankers are the new rock stars anyway. you see wolf of wall street?
 

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I dunno, the suit could come off as trying to hard.. Unless you make it look like you just left work by pulling the tie loose and unbuttoning some buttons.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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Go causal.
 
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