Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Smart vs casual

rhythmic

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So I'm going to a bar/club tonight, sort of a rock venue, with some work friends. In the hotel now having a sneaky G&T and pondering...

Do I rock up in my suit from work, or my black jeans and vest?

What do you guys think either of these sets of attire says to women?

I know, I know, "whatever you're comfortable in" but honestly, I feel equally comfortable in either. I like wearing suits or dressing casual.

What are your experiences with either dress style?

Bearing in mind the norm is very much going to be jeans and t-shirt, with the odd person wearing a shirt.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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sylvester the cat

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would you wear black jeans and vest to a business meeting?
 

rhythmic

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Certainly not, but I very much doubt anyone else will be wearing a suit or even work clothes here. I'm leaning towards the suit to be honest, but I know I'll be the only person in there wearing a suit. Which is fine, just looking for your experiences in how people perceive you; DO clothes make the man?
 

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rhythmic said:
Certainly not, but I very much doubt anyone else will be wearing a suit or even work clothes here. I'm leaning towards the suit to be honest, but I know I'll be the only person in there wearing a suit. Which is fine, just looking for your experiences in how people perceive you; DO clothes make the man?
well my point was, when in rome, do as the romans do. ie - dress accordingly.

however, wearing a suit in such a situation might be to your advantage as you would certainly stand out. so go with the suit.

bankers are the new rock stars anyway. you see wolf of wall street?
 

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I dunno, the suit could come off as trying to hard.. Unless you make it look like you just left work by pulling the tie loose and unbuttoning some buttons.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Go causal.
 
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