"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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MacAvoy

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I live in a small town in Northern Ontario where everyone knows everyone. I have lived her for about 7 years and have run through the available women once or twice already. My question is, how do I proceed to finding potential LTR material.

The nearest urban centre is 2 hours away. I do make regular trips out of town, however I own 2 businesses and just took a full-time contract to turn around another company.

I had a lady from out of town that I was dating for a while but I would not commit to her and once she found out I was sleeping with other women she put me in the friend zone so I next'd her.

Any advice or suggestions. Secondly, since reading the bible, I am able to do cold approaches and improve my game, but I have to be in "pick up" mode in order to do so and it is not a natural part of my thinking yet, so when I am on trips, business often comes first.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Slickster

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I've experienced the small town thing more than once. You feel like there aren't any options at all.

Don't be too quick to think that though. Sometimes women just come out of the woodwork. For example a good friend of mine who lives in a small town has been eternally single and always complained about the lack of women around.

Turns out he just met a 28 yr. old blonde school teacher with incredible everything (face, body, personality). She's an amazing athlete much like him. To top it off she does massage therapy in her spare time. Lucky f*cker. :)

She had been living in the same small town for over a year before he met her.

If your situation is really bad though you'll have to move or import.
Spend more time in the nearest city. Go for weekends etc. Make some connections and see where they go.
 

Ol'BlueEyes

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same boat

Same here...limited dating pool, same three or four places to go to meet women.
Only thing I can say is that sure, there may be less women, but they have the same problem with guys, so there's a high turnover rate. A chick who's attached now may not be attached a month or so from now.
 

smooth666

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Well if you own 2 businesses... What about getting new female ;) co-workers or interns (do ads in the big newspapers if you can afford it or via internet).

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cheers
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DoubleA

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Man that sucks. You can always move...
 

Ol'BlueEyes

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Skel

Internet ads aren't much of an improvement, Skel. You gotta travel a bit to date decent women. Try this:
punch in 15906 (my zip code) into any dating site's search engine. Now set the radius for 10 miles. There's not much to choose from.
 

ArmondTamzarian

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I have you all beat

Try entering in my zip 33043 then use a 35 mile radius!

Yup 1/3 as many as the previous post!
 
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