"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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alright here's the situation

i live in a small town, it sucks, not much to do
the girl i'm taking out is new in town, and of course i want to show her a good time so out of the following what do you suggest and why?

Mini-golf
Movie (crappy theater)
dinner

that's about all i can think of, don't want to stay home of course, any suggestions i might not have thought of?

( i realize you don't live in the town so you don't know all the specifics, but you can guess, i have faith)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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thanks a lot

dude thanks for the link it rocks, everybody with this problem should check it out

thanks once again

here's to crossing my fingers the date goes well
 
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Have fun, man.
 
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Re: thanks a lot

Originally posted by Aetolia
dude thanks for the link it rocks, everybody with this problem should check it out

thanks once again

here's to crossing my fingers the date goes well
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Thats why they have the search :p
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Re: Re: thanks a lot

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Thats why they have the search :p
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SHHHH. It's a secret.
 
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