"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Aetolia

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alright here's the situation

i live in a small town, it sucks, not much to do
the girl i'm taking out is new in town, and of course i want to show her a good time so out of the following what do you suggest and why?

Mini-golf
Movie (crappy theater)
dinner

that's about all i can think of, don't want to stay home of course, any suggestions i might not have thought of?

( i realize you don't live in the town so you don't know all the specifics, but you can guess, i have faith)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Aetolia

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thanks a lot

dude thanks for the link it rocks, everybody with this problem should check it out

thanks once again

here's to crossing my fingers the date goes well
 

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Have fun, man.
 

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Re: thanks a lot

Originally posted by Aetolia
dude thanks for the link it rocks, everybody with this problem should check it out

thanks once again

here's to crossing my fingers the date goes well
Thats why they have the search :p
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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LikRetsam

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Re: Re: thanks a lot

Originally posted by Vincent
Thats why they have the search :p
SHHHH. It's a secret.
 
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