"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Aetolia

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alright here's the situation

i live in a small town, it sucks, not much to do
the girl i'm taking out is new in town, and of course i want to show her a good time so out of the following what do you suggest and why?

Mini-golf
Movie (crappy theater)
dinner

that's about all i can think of, don't want to stay home of course, any suggestions i might not have thought of?

( i realize you don't live in the town so you don't know all the specifics, but you can guess, i have faith)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Aetolia

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thanks a lot

dude thanks for the link it rocks, everybody with this problem should check it out

thanks once again

here's to crossing my fingers the date goes well
 

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Have fun, man.
 

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Re: thanks a lot

Originally posted by Aetolia
dude thanks for the link it rocks, everybody with this problem should check it out

thanks once again

here's to crossing my fingers the date goes well
Thats why they have the search :p
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Re: Re: thanks a lot

Originally posted by Vincent
Thats why they have the search :p
SHHHH. It's a secret.
 
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