"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Small Talk - the biggest hurdle to jump

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johnballantine02

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Small talk. I think this is a huge obstacle in the path to my success.

I just can't do it. It takes so much effort and strength. I know there are tons of guys out there that don't understand where guys like me are coming from.

It's hard to put it into words, but going up to a complete stranger and talking to them about some boring bull**** and going on and on is really just stupid to me. It's akward, it's lame and it just isn't me.

I can never think of anything poignant to say. Something that really gives a reason for me talking to someone else.


That being said I do workout and I'm in great shape and I am focused on school right now and my life.......but still no girlfriend.


Uhh....Help Please.
Thanks
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Pick up Larry King's book on conversation, there was a thread on it at one point, look it up. I actually picked up an ebook on convo last week and it's been helpful.

things like understanding the dynamics of conversation and asking questions -- like asking a close ended question and following up with an open ended question, listening actively and using "free information" to delve deeper into the convo.
 
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